A Bit About Who You Will Marry

 There is no such thing as a perfect person and that includes the person that you will marry. People are under the impression that all of this stuff has to be in order before they walk down the aisle, but that is indeed not true. Some men/women will come with baggage from previous relationships/marriages; some may have bad credit and a lot of bills that they have to pay. Some of you who have no children will have a husband/wife who has multiple children or if you have one child, your husband/wife may have multiple children; some will have baby daddies/mamas and ex-husbands/wives. Look at the hearts. ❤

For the women who own their own businesses:
You may make more than your husband but it doesn’t discredit him from being the head of the home nor does it give you a right to let him know in word, thought or deed that you make more money than he does; you still have to submit to him as unto the Lord. God made you successful to be a blessing to you both monetarily and now you two will be a team. What you both have is each other’s and there is no I in WE nor is there an I in team.

For the single moms:

God is sending a man of God to be a leader of your home and to reestablish godly order. As a mom, you are still the primary disciplinarian but as your husband, he has the right to speak up if your child is doing something wrong. If you happen to not be around, then you can address the issue when you get home (if any). The independent mentality needs to be traded for interdependent. God is sending a man to love you and your children and you have to be ready to get in the passengers seat and let him drive. If you think you have an issue letting him take over the reins then pray about it right now. Submission is required by the Lord in your marriage � and God will bless your obedience by you honoring His Word.

For the single dads:

God is going to send you a wife who loves you and your children. She will also love God and may have her own children that you will grow to love as well. Make sure that the other parent (ex-wife/girlfriend) is respectful of her and you not allow her to be disrespected and reassure her. Keep it drama free.

Prayer is a powerful weapon. Make sure you two pray together daily and encourage one another and love each other with all your hearts. Don’t allow emotional baggage, fear, money or people around you discourage you from taking hold of the blessing God has given to you or about to give to you. All men/women are not the same and what God gives are beautiful blessings. �

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