Emotional Incest: A Man and His Mother

 If you are dating a man and he has a close relationship with his mother, that is a good thing. Now, what makes it a not-so-good thing is when the man is so close to his mother, and you feel like you are the other woman. If you are experiencing this in the dating stage, it best that you make a run for it! You find him putting his mother before you with the small things now and it will only get worse after you get married. There is a woman that I know who was dating a man and she thought that it was cool. She got to meet the man's mother and everything and she didn't see anything wrong or off at the time so everything seemed cool. Well, that woman married the man, moved in with him and his mother and all Hell broke loose. It was a nightmare from Hell. The mother thought that the wife was taking her place when all the mother was is what she was: his mother. She started telling lies about her and having private conversations with him and filling his brain full of junk about his own wife. She poisoned the man's mind against his wife and her daughter that she had brought along with her. She kept badgering her son and that created confusion and tension with his wife and his stepdaughter as well. It was unnecessary warfare and the thing about it was the son never told his wife who his mother really was. He painted her as a person who went through a lot in life, but did not reveal the spiritual or mental condition that she had. He kept that as a secret to himself and it was never to be found out, but God exposed it anyway. The woman's mother-in-law was a full-fledged Jezebelic witch and her husband believed everything that the mother said, even siding with her when she was wrong. In his eyes, she could do no wrong, but in God's eyes, she had done wrong to the mother and daughter that came to stay with them. The husband wanted the mother to live with him forever, but she was not having it at all and she said no. He was one who thought that since she was older that she needed to stay with him, even thought she had several other children and she was not on board.

So back to the point of emotional incest...if a man is connected with his mother in the way he should be connecting with his wife mentally and emotionally, he will not be able to connect with you as a wife. As I explain this story, the husband and the wife did not connect in the way that God intended due to spiritual and emotionally interference. 

Ladies, you don't need a man that will not cut the apron strings mentally, emotionally and spiritually from their mother. This is something that they need to recognize on their own and many times without being in a relationship. Do not take this on because the connection will disappoint and overwhelm you and have you feeling that you are not doing enough when you are doing more than enough. These men will unknowingly allow their mothers to destroy their relationships and marriages and the connection will drain you if you let it! 

After almost two and half years, her husband and she moved out of their mother in law's place, but the battle was still there. Sometimes people have to be moved from a certain environment before they can have the opportunity for deliverance.

Women of Worth, God has called you to peace and not to war with people.

Wait on God to send a man that is ready!


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