WHAT TO LOOK OUT FOR IN THE COURTSHIP PROCESS, PART 1

Many people get excited about being in a relationship and because they have been single for a long time, some can ignore the early red flags in a relationship.

Courtship is a process, and it is not anything to breeze through in a day. There are things that you need to look out for.
Does that person have a relationship with God?
We should not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. What does have light have in common with darkness? You can't save anyone; that person has to come to God on their own.
Can the person apologize?
There are people who will not take responsibility for their own actions and will shift the blame on you for everything, even thought there is no fault of their own. Please avoid people who have narcissistic characteristics; Jezebel is the spiritual term and goes hand in hand with the spirit of pride.
You want someone who is sensitive to your feelings and takes responsibility for their own actions.
Can that person wait until marriage to have sex?
Many people disagree with me, but you don't have to try before you buy. How many times have you did this and it ended in a good way. You can't keep handing your "goodies" out to people to see if they want to buy the whole cow or not; you are not called to be sampled.
You are a human being and a person with feelings. You can't bring carnal thoughts into a relationship that you want to have because it will fizzle out really quick. You don't get to know a person interlocked together and under the covers. It is time to do some things different. Keep sex off of the table and trust God to deliver.

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